Seraphine
Says

Seraphine Says is where one of Melbourne's most experienced BDSM Dominatrixes shares her thoughts, expertise and musings on the Erotic Dark Arts. From how to navigate BDSM scene negotiation like a pro, to understanding what puts a Mistress off, this blog is an honest, knowledgeable resource for submissives, curious newcomers and seasoned kinksters alike. Real insight, no performance, straight from a classically trained ProDomme with over a decade of experience in Melbourne's kink community.

Free BDSM scene negotiation checklist covering 6 key areas of planning kink play.

BDSM NEGOTIATION CHECKLIST | Free download

This free downloadable BDSM negotiation checklist is a must have resource for your kink toolkit, written by Melbourne Dominatrix Seraphine Says.

Seraphine Says

May 111 min read

A beautiful Mistress Seraphine holds in her arms a submissive man in a leather mask

ALLOWING FOR ANXIETY IN BDSM

Anxiety doesn’t exclude someone from wanting to explore submission—but it does change how we, as partners, facilitators, or Dominants, need to approach care, communication, and structure.

Seraphine Says

May 26 min read

Picture of a pretty woman making the "shh" gesture of a finger to her lips

TALK DIRTY TO ME | From Silent To Salacious

Verbal confidence isn’t some magical trait bestowed upon the chosen few. It’s a skill. Which means you can help them build it—slowly, intentionally, and without throwing them (or yourself) into the deep end.

Seraphine Says

Apr 164 min read