BDSM Melbourne Dominatrix Melbourne Mistress
Introducing
The artist formerly known as Mistress Alani
Experience
Classically trained to creatively tame
| Classically trained (Apprenticed) ProDomme since 2014
| Former Head Mistress of Fetish House (Melbourne)
| Australian School of Tantra certified practitioner
| Contributor to Archer magazine, Demasque magazine
| Guest on Fetish Forum panel (S&M), OurKink podcast,
| Presenter at OzKinkFest, Society of Australian Sexologists,
Play style
Behind closed doors
BDSM and the Erotic Dark Arts are my ikigai - the blending of profession, vocation, passion and mission. With over a decade of experience as my foundation, you will find me warm, commanding, knowledgeable and intuitive.
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My practice incorporates various traditions including classical BDSM skillsets, neotantric practices, breathwork and embodiment techniques to create a connected, conscious kink experience for those I choose to play with.
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While my approach is often playful, it is never frivolous.​​
I value authenticity over arrogance, curiosity over conceit, and playfulness over performance. ​​
Approach
Tell me how you do the voodoo that you do
As I enter the peak of my career in the Erotic Dark Arts, I have been blessed with the privilege of discernment, as reflected both in my chosen clientele, and my bespoke approach to Dark Arts sessions:
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| Welcoming the Muse
| Deciding the Palette
| Becoming the Canvas
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​It is not my job to fulfill your hidden fantasies;
It is my pleasure to uncover new, fulfilling realities.
Ethics
What we owe to each other
This work is powerful. In addition to sensual exploration, the Erotic Dark Arts are a pathway to -
radical self acceptance; heal sexual dysfunction; assist with trauma processing; strengthen personal boundaries and communication skills; explore gender identity, and embrace sexual orientation.
Such transformative potential must be approached with candour, compassion and care.
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​​Candour
| Queries will be answered honestly and clearly to ensure consent is informed
| Potential risks of desired activities will be discussed prior to beginning play
| If I deny an activity due to risk, I will explain my reasons for doing so
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Compassion - I will
| Check-in if I believe you are struggling during play
| Adhere to your limits regarding activities, language, marks/bruises, or whatever else you require
| Honour your safe word immediately and without malice
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Care - I will not
​| Engage in play that aims to permanently alter your body​
​| Engage in activities that I do not feel confident providing
| Provide activities I deem too high risk to your emotional or physical wellbeing
| Play with those under 18, visibly affected by drugs or alcohol, appearing unwell/infectious, or who are unhygienic in presentation