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Preparation

Get ready, get set...

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|   Fuel your body​

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Ensure that you are fed, hydrated and well rested prior to your session, as the Erotic Dark Arts can be physically and emotionally demanding.

Refrain from orgasm for a minimum of 24 hours prior to your session. Climax can be teased and controlled, but not if you've emptied yourself.

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|   What to bring

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  • Cash balance of your session payment.

  • Important medications must be brought with you, especially those which may need administering (eg; asthma inhaler, EpiPen).

  • If you have favourite outfits or toys you'd like to include, you're welcome to bring them provided they are freshly cleaned and sanitary.

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|   Do

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  • Consider my comfort, as well as yours. If engaging in intimate ass worship or face sitting, your face should be free from irritating, scratchy stubble.

  • Consider trimming any unruly pubic hair to avoid it getting caught and pulled during play.

  • Cultivate your sexual energy in the lead up to play.
    Self-edging will enhance the full body enjoyment of play.

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|   Don't

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  • Whilst light douching is fine, enemas often hurt more than they help. I personally do not provide enemas as they risk irritation of the colon; but if you feel it necessary to provide yourself one, ensure you do so at least 2 hours before the session start time so all fluid has been fully evacuated. Fecal water is a health hazard which will result in the immediate cessation of all anal play.

  • Last-minute pubic grooming (waxing, shaving etc.) will irritate the skin. If you wish to be smooth for your session, allow a few days of healing prior to arrival.

  • Once again, do not ejaculate or orgasm for a minimum of 24 hours prior.

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|   Plan your day

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The Sanctuary is located in North Melbourne, a 3 minute walk from Flemington Bridge station, in addition to tram lines 57 + 59. Secure visitor parking is also available on-site, if requested.

Allow at least an additional 30 minutes to your scheduled booking conclusion to cover your arrival consult, pre-play shower, post-play shower and aftercare provision/discussion.

The Sanctuary does not have EFTPOS facilities, however there is a 7/11 in close proximity which does.

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|   If something goes awry...

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If you're sick, stay home. Do not risk the health of myself, nor my immunocompromised clients.

If you are psychologically unfit for play, let me know as soon as possible. I will not play with you if I feel it may risk emotional harm.

If you are unable to engage in some activities (eg; injury), but wish to continue with other activities, rest assured I am happy to adapt to your needs.

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On arrival

Let's begin

|   The final countdown​

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Arrive no earlier than 5 minutes prior to your booked time.

You will not be able to gain entry prior to this, so just relax, breathe, and wait until it's time. 

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|   Your time has come

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Upon arrival we will have a brief in-person consult to confirm details previously discussed, ensure consent is current, make edits where required, and discuss any existing injuries, medications, medical conditions, limits and safewords.

Arrival consults are included with all bookings, and do not eat into your play time. As such, it is expected that all consultation questions will be answered in full to ensure comfort and understanding for both of us.

Your arrival shower is mandatory before play begins.

Your departure shower is optional.

Post play

Celebration, communication, information + integration

Aftercare is given post-session, to ensure your physical and emotional safety upon leaving The Sanctuary. This includes the offer of water, soft drink or carbohydrate dense snacks as required.

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Before leaving, you will be given the opportunity to share your experience, discuss any challenges that arose, and ask any questions you may have about this or future sessions.

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If additional aftercare is required in the days after a session, there is provision for this (without charge, within reason). Instructions on how to obtain this additional aftercare is provided at the end of your session. However, if support is required beyond my expertise, contact details for a relevant BDSM-aware allied health professional will be provided.

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